Tears

I am reading a book by Nancy Guthrie called Holding On To Hope.  (Tyndale House Publishers, Inc.,  2002)  The following passage from the book I can relate to and I would like to share it with you.  These are not my words, but they do describe how I'm feeling.


So many people are afraid to bring up my loss.  They don't want to upset me.  But my tears are the only way I have to release the deep sorrow I feel.  I tell people, "Don't worry about crying in front of me, and don't be afraid that you will make me cry!  Your tears tell me you care, and my tears tell you that you've touched me in a place that is meaningful to me - and I will never forget your willingness to share my grief."


In fact, those who shed their tears with me show me we are not alone.  It often feels like we are carrying this enormous load of sorrow, and when others shed their tears with me, it is as if they are taking a bucketful of sadness and carrying it for me.   It is, perhaps, the most meaningful thing anyone can do for me.


Deb